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Eva Mendes, renowned for her roles in Hollywood, is not just an actress; she’s a woman who defies societal norms. In an exclusive interview with PEOPLE for this week’s Beautiful issue, Mendes shares her perspective on motherhood and why she’s grateful for becoming a mom later in life.
A Timeless Decision
At the age of 50, Mendes reflects on her life’s journey, emphasizing her choice to embrace motherhood later than most. Unlike her younger self at 25, she now feels equipped to navigate the challenges of raising children.
“When I was 40, it was a big deal for people when I was pregnant, and it wasn’t for me. And then I was 42 and I was pregnant with my second one and people were like, ‘Oh my God, you’re going to be so tired. That’s why people have kids in their 20s.’ I was like, that’s the most sorry, asinine thing I’ve ever heard,” Mendes, who shares Esmeralda Amada, 9, and Amada Lee, 8, with Ryan Gosling, shares.
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Patience and Perspective
Mendes acknowledges the transformation within herself over the years, recognizing that her younger self lacked the patience and maturity required for parenthood. Now, she cherishes every moment with her children, understanding the significance of being present during their formative years.
“It takes more patience. In my 20s, I shouldn’t have even been around a child. I was just foul-mouthed and smoking. I could not have raised kids in any other era of my life but now, for sure,” she reflects.
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Eva Mendes: Prioritizing Motherhood
For Mendes, the decision to step back from her acting career to focus on her children was natural. She understood the fleeting nature of childhood and prioritized being there for her daughters, Esmeralda and Amada.
“It was the easiest decision I’ve ever made. I was older and I knew that my kids are going to be little once, and whatever I do or don’t do right now is going to affect them the rest of their life,” she explains.
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The Power of Parenthood
Becoming a mother has empowered Mendes in ways she never imagined. She acknowledges the responsibility of setting a positive example for her daughters and strives to be a better person each day.
“It all matters when you have two little people watching you all day long. It’s frightening but it’s good because it makes me try to be a better person every day,” she shares.
Privacy and Boundaries
Despite their celebrity status, Mendes and Gosling have maintained a level of privacy, especially when it comes to their daughters. Mendes emphasizes the importance of respecting their children’s privacy and consent, refraining from sharing intimate details of their lives on social media.
Conclusion: Embracing Motherhood on Her Terms
Eva Mendes’ journey into motherhood later in life exemplifies courage, patience, and prioritization. By embracing parenthood on her terms, she has found fulfillment and purpose beyond her acting career.
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